As part of the 2011 Finalists Programme, we’ll be giving all of the Finalists the chance to share information about their projects in their own words. The eight Finalists are taking part in a three month evaluation and support programme, through which they will each receive funding and support to the value of €25,000. This provides us with the opportunity to further assess the eight projects prior to the final selection of the three 2011 winners in October. Come October, the three Award winners will receive an award to the value of €170,000 over a two-three year period, which will enable them to increase the impact of the work that they are doing in Ireland. Today, we have the pleasure of introducing you to Joan Freeman of Pieta House.
“With five centres in Dublin and Limerick, and over 60 staff, Pieta House now stands as a testament to the hard work of hundreds of people and a source of hope for those who are suicidal and who self-harm. Pieta House, which provides counselling, support and advice for those who are actively suicidal, who may be contemplating suicide, or who self-harm, was created after a personal tragedy and the realisation that there was a very serious gap in services. It is the only service in Ireland for people who self-harm or who are actively suicidal other than A & E.

In 2003, while working as a psychologist and running my own counselling business, I was inspired to create Pieta House, while flicking through a book called ‘The Seven Sorrows of Mary” and was taken by a sculpture pictured in the book and of its symbolism. ‘The Pieta’ is a renaissance sculpture by Michelangelo that depicts the body of Jesus on the lap of his mother Mary after the Crucifixion. There is a lovely symbolic story behind it. He [Michelangelo] made Mary’s body bigger than that of her son. He made her shoulders very broad and her lap deep so she could embrace his death. It was a light bulb moment that allowed me to immediately think of a way to create a service that would be strong enough to provide the same support for some of the most vulnerable in society. I felt that what we needed was a service that embraces the broken lives of people in our community. It was really one of those flashlight moments and it started from there.

Once that thought had entered my mind, it would not leave and I felt compelled to close my business and focus completely on the creation of Pieta House, a decision that was so easy to make. I didn’t see any difficulty at all! It just didn’t come into the equation. This was all I knew I had to do and failure was a word that never entered my mind.
It took three years for the idea to become a reality. First, I felt I had to research the topic of suicide in greater detail. Even in my own practice, we were always afraid of dealing with anybody who had suicidal tendencies, so I immersed myself in the subject of suicide and self-harm. To ensure that Pieta House would last longer than most services or charities, I embarked on a course of diligent and meticulous research and preparatory work. I had to do a sort of feasibility study to see was if it possible to have a service like this, and then this was followed by a business plan.
Many difficulties presented themselves while I was endeavouring to establish a new organisation. Inevitably funding presented itself as one of the most difficult obstacles. Having initially received no public funding, I put my own home on the line by borrowing from the bank and using it as collateral. Despite this risk, I saw this simply as a necessary step towards the ultimate goal. I asked my husband Pat about it obviously, but he knew I was so blinkered about it at this point. So on the 19th January 2006 we started off with six people and we now have 60 staff. In spite of the initial success the difficulty of funding never went away and today it costs €1.3 million annually to provide therapy completely free of charge to those who need it across the five Pieta House centres.
A staggering 85 per cent of the €1.3 million would be down to fundraising and we don’t have a fundraiser. But it’s also down to the huge generosity of people, people randomly hearing about us and doing a fundraiser for us. It’s not easy, though, and we still manage from month to month but the journey has been miraculous in that way as many charities close down in the first couple of years.
Historically Ireland has had a particularly complicated and difficult relationship with suicide. Despite an improved awareness of suicide in Irish society through personal experience and National Office of Suicide Prevention research, there still appears to be an unwillingness to openly discuss or debate the issue. In the past, a stigma attached to suicide led to under-reporting in coroner reports. Every day more people die through suicide than road traffic accident, yet suicide prevention budgets do not reflect this. With suicide in Ireland on the rise, it is very clear that there is a need for services like Pieta House. In 2009 there were 527 reported deaths by suicide, an increase of 24 per cent on the previous year. I feel that attitudes need to change if Ireland is to properly deal with the issue of suicide.
One of the obstacles to Pieta House is getting people to see that behind suicide is not always a psychiatric illness but usually a very human experience. We see that most people who come to us have no psychiatric history but the reaction to a life event such as bereavement, or a relationship break up, bullying, all those sort of things. It’s trying to get that message across because there is still a stigma attached. Once people start realising what it is, then we can do something concrete about it.
Looking to the future, I have grand plans for Pieta House! I hope to open more centres in Cork and Galway and aim to have a Pieta service within 100 km of everyone living in Ireland. Beyond that who knows? I already have a vision of a Pieta in Florida!! Already we receive emails from all over the world asking for the location of the nearest Pieta House. My main desire of course is that many more than the 4,000 users of Pieta House will get the help they need in the very near future.”
For more information about Pieta House please see www.pieta.ie. You can congratulate Joan on becoming a Finalist with Social Entrepreneurs Ireland on Twitter @PietaHouse